We’ve all experienced the same thing at important crossroads in our life when big changes were underway. Often, we find ourselves feeling panic and frozen in time, possibly with indecision, waiting and wondering:

Which way to go?

How will things turn out?

Sometimes, you just don’t know what to do.

I’m asked frequently about this topic and, I have a lot of experience with it as well. Everyone, myself included, wants answers.

What should I do?

How do I know?

These answers may not seem forthcoming; we cannot see into the future. Every direction can be okay; one can be the best. The simple truth is, we just don’t know with 100% accuracy. This is where awareness and faith come in to play. Let me explain what I mean here.

Awareness is important on many levels. Knowing the landscape of your life, you can make calculated decisions that support your goals.

In business, and daily life activities, we implement this process automatically without much awareness at all, it has become so habitual. This, in part, is where a problem lies.

Habits create blind spots.  You don’t see new information, new data become available to you. Auto-pilot means your flying blind. Even when flying a plane on auto-pilot, the pilot will check the instrument panels to ensure the data is consistent. Why don’t we? Be aware of your data, your information coming into you.

Let’s talk more about data. Your data comes from many sources and most of us are familiar with these sources.

The common source that we’re all familiar with is the mind and store-house of knowledge and experience we have gained from life.

Again, those who rely solely upon this source risk repeating the same mistakes over and over again. The mystery of life dictates that our ability to identify with life experience as truth results in creating more of this truth in our lives. If this truth is a truth of painful experience, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.These patterns and beliefs are held in our energy.

Now if we also tap into our emotions and intuition, we are able to objectively assess all sources and come to new conclusions.

A surprising fact here is that not everyone is in touch with their emotions or allows the emotions the freedom they deserve. Many people feel stuck and simply don’t feel emotions. Emotions are very useful in interpreting and/or being aware of underlying factors that may not be evident through’ hard tangible data’.

For some this is a gut-feeling, others have a flash of insight, and others feel twinges in certain parts of the body without being aware of any potential significance. ( At this point I’m jumping up and down, pay attention to these flashes!)

More people are becoming aware of the source that is our spiritual awareness. This is a quiet place within that has a higher level of wisdom for the greater good. This can be pertinent to you, your life, your family life, community, work, the world, and so on.

The levels of knowledge accessible here are limitless. It is as though we are connected to a universal storehouse of knowledge. This place of knowing is far less judgemental and emotional but has the ability to synthesize the data from the mind and emotions, integrating and offering solutions from a much higher level of consciousness. This is something that many people find themselves seeking as they mature and look for more significance in their lives and meaning in their work.

So we’ve talked about emotion, intuition and spiritual awareness. Finally, we must talk about the role of faith. What do I mean by this? It is the co-creative relationship and process that we have as human-beings with the source of all creation.

Now, this isn’t religious, it isn’t specific to any religion, yet it doesn’t contradict any religion either.

Whatever you want to call ‘it’, Source, Universe, Creation exists, as do we.

We see it all around us.

Scientists study deeper into the stars. More scientists study deeper into the mystery of time and space- quantum physics. What is witnessed is creation, its’ magic and its’ mystery. Down at the quantum level we discover that we’re mostly made up of empty space and other unusual phenomena that cannot be explained. Out in the stars, they see an expanding universe. Now, going deeper, with probing satellites and quantum sciences, new theories arise. All seem to point to an apex of creation coming from nothing… a Universal Force.

If you are new to these concepts, as I once was. It can bring forth the biggest skeptic in you. Stay open minded here, it is the most important thing you can do for yourself now.

When you access this Universal Source, and understand your co-creative relationship with it, your world changes.  When you understand that this force is abundant love, it supplies you with what is in your intention.

So what we intend for our lives becomes real. Many people who do this consistently refer to it as manifesting. Your intentions include what is in your energy, in your emotions, in your thoughts and patterns. So I invite you to reflect on what you are manifesting in your life. What are your habitual emotions, thoughts and patterns.

As children, many of us have had at least one solid experience of this. We may have just known that we would have something in our lives, whether a gift, an experience, a trip, whatever, and then it happens. There was no fear, doubt, uncertainty, only gladness for what was to come. That is the power of intent.

As adults, so much of our lives have instructed us to ignore so much.

Don’t dream to big.

You can’t do this.

Don’t do that.

That’s only for the privileged.

You need to have a degree.

There is too much competition.

This is the way things work.

Everywhere you turn, you are told how it is and what cannot be and you become conditioned. As adults we have spent too little time in practice with our spiritual origins that we do not understand this mystery and in our need for control, we stifle its’ requirement for room to breathe and work its’ own magic.

We measure things by worldly standards and time clocks, not realizing that in the bigger picture, some of the things that didn’t happen within our ideal time frame, those so-called failures actually were important stepping-stones in a grander scheme for our lives.

How can you work with your spiritual side and co-operate to make life feel easier?

I use the award winning Energy Alignment Method- EAM ®.  It is the only Energy Psychology process designed to get you living the Law Of Attraction, one of the Universal Laws. This was developed by Yvette Taylor, who has personally trained me and the other 29 mentors globally. EAM has been dubbed “the fastest transformational energy tool for getting in flow” by Jo Westwood, HayHouse Author.

EAM is a bridge between Eastern & Western Principles. There is a deep basis in eastern spiritual principles, universal laws, therapeutic methods and energy work. The method is based on modern research into quantum physics, neuroscience and neurocardiology.

One of the reasons I’m so passionate about it is because it is speedy. It is a speedy effective 5 step process to shift your energy into a coherent energy state.

This coherent energy state is known as flow, you’ve probably heard people talk about flow. You will have heard me talk about it on the Facebook live I did yesterday in Your Impassioned Life. The state of flow or alignment actually creates changes on a physiological, psychological and energetic levels of our experience.

If you want to know more and begin your own journey, you can apply here www.louisahavers.com/apply.