Selflessness Or Self-Sabotage?
Have you ever said this…?
“I simply don’t have time to pursue my dream project/career/passion because my boss/partner/friends/family/obligations just keep me too busy.”
It sounds like you are just trying to be a good, helpful person, right?
But there’s something else going on there…
It’s actually a form of self-sabotage.
I hear this from countless clients, and I’ve even said it to myself in the past. We get so consumed by work and relationship responsibilities that we let our passions fall by the wayside.
“People pleaser” energy makes you put relationships and other people first, instead of nurturing your own growth.
Women are conditioned in our society to put others first, so it’s really hard to notice this pattern in ourselves. Instead, we just feel like we’re “too busy” to pay attention to our own needs.
But it’s an illusion.
Acting on “people pleaser” energy keeps you from focusing on actions that create the results you’re craving.
When you live your life at the mercy of others’ needs instead of prioritising your own, it saps your energy.
Because the demand for helping others never ends… but the supply will eventually run out.
When we feed ourselves by pursuing our passions and life goals…our power, strength, and vibrancy grows.
When that happens…
You’ll have a much greater impact on those around you, but it won’t come at your expense.
I specialise in helping people shift out of “people pleaser” energy, and the results are phenomenal. It becomes so much easier for clients to act on their passions without experiencing any resistance or procrastination.
There’s a way to be loving, kind and helpful without compromising your own success. Book your free breakthrough call with me today and I’ll show you how.
P.S. If you’re too busy helping others to pursue your own joy and growth, you’re acting with “people pleaser energy.” Shifting this opens you up to achieve your goals, without sacrificing your vitality. Book your free breakthrough call with me today and let’s shift that energy together.